ڪينسر هڪ خطرناڪ بيماري آهي جنهن ۾ دردناڪ درد پيدا ٿئي ٿو. اهو غير اعلانيل اچي ٿو، اهو توهان کي صدمو ڏيندو، توهان کي عذاب ڏيندو، ۽ بعد ۾ هڪ وڏي مخالف ۾ تبديل ٿي ويندو.

تشخيص/تشخيص:

The long and torturous journey of battling cancer recurred for my mom, Santosh Kapoor, who was 84 years old, presenting with pain on the right cheek.

She initially overlooked it, attributing the discomfort to an injury she had sustained a week earlier. However, the pain persisted for a month, prompting me to take her to a specialist. We had an X-ray done, which showed no issues, so the doctor prescribed some medications that unfortunately did not alleviate the pain. Consequently, in August 2018, I took her to our dentist, who noticed white patches all over her upper palate and suspected cancer.

My mother had a history of cancer 16 years prior, which was successfully treated with radiation.

This revised version corrects grammatical issues and improves the narrative flow.

علاج

A بيوس ڪينسر جي ٻيهر ٿيڻ جي تصديق ڪئي.

مان هن کي هڪ مشهور آنڪو سرجن وٽ وٺي ويس. اسپيشلسٽ سندس معائنو ڪرڻ کان پوءِ مون کي دل ڏاريندڙ خبر ٻڌائي ته سندس عمر کي ڏسندي جراحي was ruled out and that she had one year in her hand and in case she lives more than it will be challenging and painful for her. He advised that we could consult a Radiologist, but that would also give her only temporary relief.

هن جي علاج دوران، مون واگھماري بابت پڙهيو، ولاد ۾ ايورويدڪ ڪينسر اسپتال هڪ اين آر آئي کان جنهن ڪينسر جي بيماري ۽ علاج کي ڇڏي ڏنو هو ۽ آخري ڀيرو پنهنجي چاچي سان ملڻ لاءِ هندستان ويو هو. هن جي چاچي هن کي متاثر ڪيو ۽ هن کي هڪ ڀيرو هن اسپتال ۾ علاج لاءِ قائل ڪيو. علاج ڪرائڻ بعد هو صحتياب ٿي ويو.

مان پنهنجي ماءُ کي اتي علاج لاءِ وٺي ويو، ۽ خوش قسمتيءَ سان، اهو هن لاءِ ڪم ڪيو. پيچ گهٽجي ويا، ۽ سوڄ لڳ ڀڳ گهٽجي وئي.
اسان ممبئي موٽي آياسين ۽ هڪ مهيني کان پوءِ هنن سان ملاقات ڪرڻي هئي.

Unfortunately, my mom became impatient, not realizing that Alternative medicine is slow but effective and would have healed her. Given her age, she did not have any other alternative.

One day her ayurvedic medicine got over, and she did not inform me for 10-12 days, and so her swelling reoccurred. When I asked her, she disclosed to me that she wants to go for radiation as that had cured and relieved her earlier, and she can still tolerate it.

جيئن ته سوڄ وڌي وئي هئي ۽ ڦڦڙن جي ڦاٽڻ سبب ريڊيالوجسٽ هن کي تابڪاري ڏيڻ کان انڪار ڪيو ۽ کيس ڪيمو دوائون وٺڻ جي صلاح ڏني وئي. اڃا تائين، اهو هن کي رليف فراهم نه ڪري رهيو هو، تنهن ڪري آنڪولوجسٽ هن کي هفتيوار نرم دوز جا ڇهه سيشن ڏيڻ جو فيصلو ڪيو. کيمو ڇاڪاڻ ته هوءَ اڃا مضبوط ۽ سرگرم هئي ۽ گهر جا سڀ ڪم پاڻ ڪندي هئي.

ڪيمو هن لاءِ تباهه ڪندڙ ثابت ٿيو. هوءَ هر ڪيمو سان خراب ٿي وئي ۽ 3 هفتن ۾ 4-3 ڀيرا اسپتال داخل ٿيڻو پيو.

هوءَ پنهنجي سموري طاقت ۽ اعتماد وڃائي ويٺي هئي ۽ منهنجي لاءِ به هن کي هن حالت ۾ ڏسڻ ڏاڍو ڏکوئيندڙ هو، منهنجي ماءُ جنهن هن وقت تائين پنهنجي زندگي پنهنجي شرطن تي هلائي هئي، هڪ مضبوط ۽ محنتي آزاد عورت.

مان هن کي تڪليف ۾ ڏسي سگهيس، هن جي بيماريءَ لاءِ ايترو نه پر ان کان به وڌيڪ ڇاڪاڻ ته هوءَ آس پاس جي ماڻهن جي رحم ڪرم تي هئي، مون زندگيءَ ۾ پهريون ڀيرو هن کي پنهنجو اعتماد وڃائيندي ڏٺو.

مون پنھنجو پير ھيٺ رکيو ۽ ٽيون سيشن کانپوءِ ڪيمو سيشن کي روڪڻ جو فيصلو ڪيو.

مون کي خبر پئجي وئي نظرياتي خيال ۽ ان جارحاڻي علاج جي مٿان ان کي اختيار ڪيو ته منهنجي ماءُ کي آرام سان زندگي گذارڻ ڏيو ۽ عزت سان بغير ڪنهن اذيت ۽ درد جي.

منهنجي ماءُ، پڻ، علاج وٺڻ شروع ڪيو. علاج جي باري ۾ بهترين شيء اها هئي ته دوا تمام مضبوط نه هئي؛ حاضري ڀريندي منهنجي ماءُ سان منهنجي گهر ايندي هئي ته جيئن هن جي ترقيءَ کان باخبر رهي. هن جي صحت بهتر ٿيڻ لڳو؛ گهٽ ۾ گهٽ هوءَ سمهڻ ۽ سمهڻ جي قابل هئي.

After a couple of days, she started finding difficulty in gulping the food. I took her to the doctor, and they tried inserting a food pipe, but it hurt her, causing intense pain. Therefore, we brought her home without it.

One day I had gone to attend a wedding ceremony. Her caretaker was with her. When I returned, I saw that she was eagerly waiting for me. She just asked me if the wedding went well. Since it was late, I advised her to take rest and thought that we would talk about it in the morning and will narrate her everything in detail, but unfortunately, from the next day, she was not eating much and soon stopped responding. The specialist disclosed to me that though she is not responding, she can hear, so keep talking to her, she has just a couple of days left, and I should call all her near and dear ones to meet her.

مون پنهنجي ماءُ کي ٻار وانگر سمهندي ڏٺو، پنهنجي هٿن ۽ ٽنگن کي جھڪيل، مڪمل طور تي ڇڏي ڏنو ۽ سڀ اميدون وڃائي ڇڏيون.

I started talking to her, said to her" Mom don't give up like this. You have always been such a confident, courageous, strong woman, even in your battle with the ailment. Please remain like that and go peacefully. We all will be fine, do not worry about us." Within few minutes I saw her turning, and she stretched her arms and legs and slept straight. I was delighted to see her strength returning, so she could hear whatever I was telling her.

Her last days, I kept caressing her head, holding her hand in mine and chatting all good things with her which I thought she would like to hear. I knew she was listening, though not responding.

She was unable to move, but the good thing was that she was in her senses. I called my family- my dad, brother, and sister. My sister also kept talking to her and told her about how much she loved her. Instantly, we saw a tear rolling out of her closed eyes.

هوءَ ڄاڻي ٿي ته سڀ اتي موجود آهن، ۽ ڪيترن ئي ڏينهن ۾ پهريون ڀيرو، هن اکيون کوليون، سڀني تي صحيح نظر رکي، ۽ آخري ڀيرو اکيون بند ڪيون.

اُن رات هوءَ ائين گذاري وئي ڄڻ هوءَ هر ڪنهن جي ملڻ جي انتظار ۾ هئي.

I tried my level best to save my mother from cancer. I left no stone unturned, yet this time, I could not. But I was satisfied that she was at home and at peace and went with grace, her abscess on the cheek vanished, and her face was glowing, looking beautiful and divine.

هوءَ پنهنجي آسماني سفر لاءِ فيبروري 2019 ۾ روانو ٿي وئي، هڪ سال به نه!

جدائي جو پيغام:

اهو پيغام جيڪو مان انهن سڀني کي ڏيڻ چاهيان ٿو جيڪي پنهنجي والدين يا ويجهن ۽ عزيزن جو خيال رکندا آهن

• انهن کي پيار ۽ گرمي ڏي.
• هميشه مريضن کي مثالي انداز ۾ آرام ڪرڻ جي ڪوشش ڪريو، خاص طور تي عمر وارا مريض جهڙوڪ منهنجي ماء يا جيڪي سڀئي اميدون وڃائي چڪا آهن.
• هن جي عمر جي ڪينسر جي مريضن لاء جارحتي علاج لاء نه وڃو. ان جي بدران، متبادل دوائون، هولسٽڪ هيلنگ، ۽ فالج جي سنڀال بهتر اختيار آهن.
• اسان جو مقصد هجڻ گهرجي ته انهن جي تڪليف کي ممڪن حد تائين گهٽايو وڃي. آخر تائين وڙهڻ. انھن سان انتهائي پيار، پيار، گرمجوشي سان سلوڪ ڪريو ڇو ته اھي ئي توھان جا آخري ڏينھن آھن انھن سان.