ਖੋਜ/ਨਿਦਾਨ

It all started back in 2009 when my father went to Ranchi for business purposes. One day, he discovered blood in his urine. He thought that it was summertime and so, it could be because of dehydration. However, he realized there was a problem when the blood reappeared at night. He returned to Calcutta and consulted a general physician. His diagnosis reported that there was a tumour. Needless to say, it needed an operation.

We returned home and then travelled to Chennai for ਸਰਜਰੀ. The operation was completed in half an hour, and then he got discharged. The reports arrived, and there it was a malignant tumour. We went to the hospital for follow-ups for three months to check if there was a recurrence. None was found, and we were told to return after six months.

ਕਿਉਂਕਿ ਇਹ ਖ਼ਰਾਬ ਹੋਣ ਦਾ ਮਾਮਲਾ ਸੀ, ਮੈਂ ਡਾਕਟਰਾਂ ਨਾਲ ਸਲਾਹ ਕਰਨ ਬਾਰੇ ਸੋਚਿਆ ਟਾਟਾ ਮੈਮੋਰੀਅਲ ਹਸਪਤਾਲ, ਮੁੰਬਈ। ਅੰਦਰੂਨੀ ਅਤੇ ਬਾਹਰੀ ਤੌਰ 'ਤੇ ਕਾਫ਼ੀ ਸਲਾਹ ਮਸ਼ਵਰੇ ਤੋਂ ਬਾਅਦ, ਅਸੀਂ ਮੇਰੇ ਪਿਤਾ ਜੀ ਨੂੰ ਵਾਪਸ ਕਲਕੱਤੇ ਭੇਜ ਦਿੱਤਾ। ਇਸ ਲਈ, ਮੈਂ ਕੁਝ ਰਿਪੋਰਟਾਂ ਲੈ ਕੇ ਕਲਕੱਤੇ ਵਾਪਸ ਆ ਗਿਆ। ਇੱਥੇ, ਅਸੀਂ ਇੱਕ ਡਾਕਟਰ ਨਾਲ ਸਲਾਹ-ਮਸ਼ਵਰਾ ਕੀਤਾ ਜਿਸਨੇ ਕੁਝ ਖੂਨ ਦੇ ਟੈਸਟ ਦੱਸੇ। ਜਾਂਚ ਕਰਨ ਤੋਂ ਬਾਅਦ, ਉਸਨੇ ਸਾਨੂੰ ਇੱਕ ਸਾਲ ਬਾਅਦ ਉਸਨੂੰ ਦੁਬਾਰਾ ਮਿਲਣ ਲਈ ਕਿਹਾ।

ਇਲਾਜ

The positive part was that cancer cells grew slowly in the urinary bladder. So, years went on like this. Just regular follow-ups sufficed. Doctors said that my father would be cancer-free by February 2019, and he would not have to return to the hospital after that.

However, in September 2018, he experienced some issues in his stomach first, and then later, in the head. We thought maybe it was because of some gastric problem. So, we worked on his diet. Later, we consulted a doctor, and many tests were done. Doctors found no issue.

They advised us to consult a psychologist since my father had been sick for a very long time. But, he denied visiting a psychologist. One day, he fell from his bed. He also said that he felt nauseous. Slowly, his left side started to bend.

The doctors said maybe it was a Stroke. All this while, we were in Tripura. When his condition began deteriorating this way, we went to Calcutta. There, we consulted a neurologist. They saw the reports and prescribed some tests.

When reports arrived, none of us were happy. The doctors said that my father had entered the fighter stage, and his days were numbered. It was declared that my father was in Stage 4 Glioblastoma. This means, that he got cancer in his brain.

Since then, my father started having memory loss, and hiccups, and even his voice tone had started to break down. So, we asked the doctors what we could do. They said that there were only two options

ਜੇਕਰ ਅਸੀਂ ਅਪਰੇਸ਼ਨ ਨਹੀਂ ਕਰਦੇ, ਤਾਂ ਪੈਲੀਏਟਿਵ ਕੇਅਰ ਵਿਕਲਪ ਸੀ। ਆਪਰੇਸ਼ਨ ਲਈ ਗਏ ਤਾਂ ਸ ਕੀਮੋਥੈਰੇਪੀ and radiation were required. Considering his condition, we opted for an operation.

After the operation, he underwent radiation, but his condition kept worsening. He was not responding and slipped into a coma. Doctors suggested we bring him home. So, on 16 May, we brought him back home. And on 23 May, he expired.

ਹੁਣ ਕੈਂਸਰ ਦੇ ਮਰੀਜ਼ਾਂ ਦੀ ਮਦਦ ਕਰ ਰਿਹਾ ਹੈ

ਅਸੀਂ ਉਸ ਲਈ ਹਮੇਸ਼ਾ ਮੌਜੂਦ ਸੀ। ਪ੍ਰਮਾਤਮਾ ਦੀ ਕਿਰਪਾ ਨਾਲ ਕੋਈ ਵਿੱਤੀ ਸੰਕਟ ਨਹੀਂ ਸੀ।

ਮੇਰੇ ਪਿਤਾ ਨੇ ਮੈਨੂੰ ਪ੍ਰੇਰਿਤ ਕੀਤਾ। ਉਨ੍ਹਾਂ ਦੇ ਦਿਹਾਂਤ ਤੋਂ ਬਾਅਦ, ਮੈਂ ਕੈਂਸਰ ਦੇ ਮਰੀਜ਼ਾਂ ਦੀ ਮਦਦ ਕਰਨੀ ਸ਼ੁਰੂ ਕਰ ਦਿੱਤੀ। ਹੁਣ ਮੈਂ ਇੱਕ ਫਾਊਂਡੇਸ਼ਨ ਬਣਾਉਣ ਬਾਰੇ ਵੀ ਸੋਚ ਰਿਹਾ ਹਾਂ ਕਸਰ ਮਰੀਜ਼, ਉਸਦੀ ਯਾਦ ਵਿੱਚ.

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ਮੈਂ ਸਾਰਿਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਮਾਨਸਿਕ ਤੌਰ 'ਤੇ ਤਿਆਰ ਰਹਿਣ ਲਈ ਬੇਨਤੀ ਕਰਦਾ ਹਾਂ; ਕਿਸੇ ਵੀ ਸਮੇਂ ਕੁਝ ਵੀ ਹੋ ਸਕਦਾ ਹੈ। ਇਸ ਲਈ, ਆਪਣੇ ਅਜ਼ੀਜ਼ਾਂ ਨਾਲ ਗੱਲ ਕਰੋ, ਅਤੇ ਉਨ੍ਹਾਂ ਲਈ ਉੱਥੇ ਰਹੋ.

ਆਪਣੇ ਆਪ ਵਿੱਚ ਵਿਸ਼ਵਾਸ ਰੱਖੋ ਅਤੇ ਮਾਨਸਿਕ ਤੌਰ 'ਤੇ ਮਜ਼ਬੂਤ ​​ਰਹੋ, ਸਿਰਫ਼ ਇਸ ਲਈ ਕਿ ਮਜ਼ਬੂਤ ​​ਹੋਣ ਤੋਂ ਇਲਾਵਾ ਹੋਰ ਕੋਈ ਵਿਕਲਪ ਨਹੀਂ ਹੈ।